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In today’s world, more and more parents are single. With the divorce rate on the rise, it is not uncommon for a parent to find themselves in the interesting position of trying to date and develop relationships while being a parent. This can be a very trying time for parents and children alike. Handling the process with honesty and respect will make sure that everyone handles it as well as possible.
First, remember that your children, no matter what their age, are not stupid. They likely realize that you have a need to form adult relationships. Be honest with your kids about what you are doing and why. That doesn’t mean sharing every detail of your last date with them or even introducing them to each potential suitor. It simply means being honest.
Next, remember that children have feelings too, so be respectful. While there is no rule regarding how long you should wait to start dating, pay attention to your children and how they are handling your divorce emotionally. This is a fine line to walk, as you have to be fair and respectful of both your child’s feelings and your own. Just remember to be as respectful as possible.
Finally, remember that your children form attachments just like you do. Carefully consider when it is appropriate to introduce your new relationship to your child. Some may handle it well after just a few weeks while others will need a bit more time. Again, you know your child best, so make the introduction when the time is right for you.
